Winning back your ex may seem hopeless, especially when your break-up is new and fresh in your mind. You probably feel helpless, hopeless, and depressed. You may even be having a hard time coming up with reasons to get out of bed in the morning. It’s okay. Millions of other guys just like you have been there, and new break-ups happen every day. But just because you’re not alone doesn’t mean you have to sit around and wallow in misery. You’ve got things to do. You’re going to put together a plan of action to win your ex girlfriend back.

Most guys who’ve been dumped don’t know, but a break-up doesn’t have to be the end of the road for you and your girl. The simple fact is, there is no relationship that can’t be saved – even yours. Even if your break-up was ugly, even if the two of you have problems that seem insurmountable, and even if she says she’s never coming back, you can fix it. You can win her back and make your relationship stronger than ever. However, you have to do it right.

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about winning back your ex. Most guys do it the wrong way, and end up losing her forever. Don’t be that guy. Getting your ex back is simple, but it involves doing some things that may seem counter-intuitive. If you put these things into practice, though, she’ll be back in your arms again before you know it.

First of all, you need a plan. Most of life’s great successes involve making a plan of action beforehand, and this is no different. Under no circumstances should you have any contact with your ex girlfriend until you’ve drawn up that plan. This means no e-mails, no texting, no instant messaging, and no phone calls. Don’t even write her a letter. Having contact before you know what you’re doing is going to be disastrous!

When you finally do talk to her, avoid any of the following like the plague:

1)apologizing for anything,

2) begging her to take you back,

3) blaming yourself,

4) blaming her

5) trying to get her to see that it wasn’t really your fault.

Doing any of these things will just drive her away again.

Coming up with a plan of action and getting ready to implement it can take up to a month or more. Resist the urge to contact your ex girlfriend during this time, no matter how strong that urge becomes. The frustration will be worth it once she’s back in your arms again. While you’re coming up with your action plan, you’re also going to be working on releasing the feelings of despair that came with the break-up and clearing your head so you can make some important decisions.

When you sit down to make your plan, make sure you have reliable guidance. It’s important to follow a plan that’s been used before, tested thoroughly, and proven to work like magic. There’s no need to re-invent the wheel, and things will probably go badly for you if you try. Using a known formula for winning your ex back and following it to the letter is your ticket back into her life.

Tomorrow, we’ll talk about what you MUST include in your plan for winning back your ex. Stay tuned, because this is important stuff!

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